I am not a woman expert or a relationship expert. Just a 19 year old attending university, however I have had my share of experiences and outlook on certain situations in life. I as well have an older sister and this has brought me to how I am. Yes, us men may be hard to understand however one thing I believe is respect and this blog post is to reach out to all the woman! and all the men who are currently in a conflict with their loved one!
I am trying to get some diverse readers here!
So here is how it begins..
Women remember every nice thing you do or say in the same way they remember every pitiless thing. Male and Females think differently, of course we know by now that woman think very differently and will analyze about everything therefore our words and your actions can have effects on a woman that will last her a lifetime. That cruel comment you made about her mother,those times you ignored her for no reason at all, the times you didn’t open the car door for her,
A woman may choose to stay with a man who treats her badly because she fell in love with him during a stage when he was pretending to be pleasant (beginning stages of their relationship). However, she won’t last with a man who is malicious for the rest of her life. Over time, every mean or hurtful thing that he will do will drive her to the point of exit.
When you are good to a woman regardless of the end result she will never forget you. Isn’t that what you want? You will be the standard for all of the men in her life that follow. If they can’t compete with you or do better, they float to the bottom. She will remember all the times you were there for her, the surprise you did for her, the fact that you made her feel like a woman even if she was wrong.
Lets summarize this up.
WOMAN ASK yourself how you want to be treated.
MEN- BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE
Communicate, Be a good listener, Ask her how she is feeling, Fight but be fair, Make her feel special, and last but not least RESPECT.